the loveliest article by Chris Huntington (12/26/13): "Learning to Measure Time in Love and Loss," NYT. "My wife wants us to open only one box of cereal at a time to keep the flakes from going stale, but my son and I get up first, so we eat what we want. We like to change. He gives me a thumbs-up whenever I open a new box." & "There are some things you will never do. It doesn’t matter. There is no rush. Be the best prisoner you can be."