A strong man respects a woman who stands up for herself and gives as good as she gets. Only weak men name call and accuse women of having a mean streak when they don't just roll over and take the crap they dish out.
Do you want to know what the best revenge is? Happiness. If someone screwed you over or hurt you, dont go after them. Dont try to get them back. You'll just lower yourself to their level. You're better than that. You can do better without them. Forget about them and live your life happy- not because someone made you do it, but because you wanted it yourself