Talk to a nun - preferably not in a gas mask but if there is one that is ok too. This may seem weird, but I still want to.She is ordered to wear it so she doesn't spread her erotic life styles to others
Making yourself a priority is not selfish it's an act of self-love. When you are real and honest it may piss some people off but frankly that's their problem. Getting to know yourself and learning to trust your intuition is so important. You learn what you can and should give to others and you also learn when to walk away.
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