I met Pam at one point in my life, and told her all of the adult cat issues I had. She is a cat behaviorlist and I ended up with a signed copy of her book. It was signed to both me and Bella, the adult cat with issues. :o) It's done wonders!! I need to find a book by her to help with the kitten not attacking Bella... She's older and slow and it's irritating when the Battle Cats come out!!